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Infidelity and Affairs

Today's society accepts extra-marital sexual relationships as the norm - indeed surveys suggest that in the majority of marriages at least one partner has had some form of sexual relationship outside the marriage since the wedding. Yet the pain, loss of trust, and feelings of betrayal that accompany this, whether the infidelity is declared, discovered, or lies hidden, is one of the most pernicious cancers that can gnaw away at the heart of the strongest relationship.

Whether you have been unfaithful, or are concerned that your partner may have been, we hope the resources here will help you work through your situation. Remember, you are not alone, and others have come through even the pain of an affair and made their marriage work.

For specific issues relating to online affairs please visit our topic on Internet Addiction and Cybersex.

Are you struggling with the pain of betrayal?
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Online Affairs
Online affairs are increasingly common, and have the same marriage wrecking potential as physical affairs.
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Struggling with Jealousy
Is jealousy threatening your marriage?
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"Clues" that your Partner is Having an Affair
Some of the clues that may give warning of your partner's infidelity.
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Sex in the Office
A look at the issues around office based affairs.
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Suspicions of an Affair
Find out the signs that may indicate an affair.
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The Monogamy Myth and the Prevalence of Affairs
A look at just how many marriages are affected by affairs.
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To Tell or not To Tell
Some advice on whether to tell your partner about an affair.
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A comprehensive article on affairs, what underlies them, and some of the stages for recovery
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Common Patterns in Dealing with Affairs
A look at how people commonly react to an affair in their marriage.
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Learning to Trust Again
Is it possbile to trust again after we've been let down?
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Managed Separation
Separation doesn't have to spell the end of a relationship if both parties agree to some guiding principles.
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A stronger marriage after an affair?!
Many people (mistakenly) believe that a marriage can be strengthened by an affair - the myth exploded!
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Extramarital Affairs: Hope for recovery
Help in recovering from the devastating emotional impact of extramarital affairs, offered by relationship experts, Peggy Vaughan and James Vaughan, Ph.D.
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Forgiveness - one of the keys to a healthy marriage
Do you find it hard to forgive? Fnd out a bit more about this key to marital health.
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Why does a person stay with a spouse who has had an affair?
A closer look at what influences people to stay with their spouse after an affair.
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How Can You Ever Rebuild Trust after an Affair?
Find out what can be done to move forward together after an affair
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Affairs: Emergency Tactics
This pragmatic book helps the betrayed person establish the fact of betrayal and then provides detailed things to do and not to do in order to keep one's options maximized and to avoid the horrible errors people make when they are under stress.
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The Monogamy Myth: A Personal Handbook for Recovering from Affairs
the book that offers a new understanding of extramarital affairs, based on ten years of research
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7 Powerful Tactics to Break Free From the Affair and Stop it NOW!
Seven positive steps to change your own lifestyle and break free from the effects of an affair
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Your Personal Guide to Awareness, Prevention, Intervention, and Recovery from Infidelity.
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A Man's Guide to and from Infidelity
A self help guide for men dealing with the sense of betrayal through infidelity
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Infidelity: A Survival Guide
A psychologist looks at how couples can survive infidelity.
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Make up or break up
Faced with marriage difficulties, what can be done to save your marriage?
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Not "Just Friends": Protect Your Relationship from Infidelity and Heal the Trauma of Betrayal
Infidelity doesn't start when your partner sleeps with someone; its when your partner becomes closer to someone. This practical book will help you work through all the issues.
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Woman's Guide to and from Infidelity
a self help guide for women dealing with the sense of betrayal through infidelity
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Surviving An Affair
A look at the types of affairs and how to save your marriage.
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Survivors of an Open marriage
Discover the results of an open marriage from one who had a mutual agreement with her husband to engage in it. The outcome may surprise you.
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Surviving Infidelity: Making decisions, Recovering From The Pain
A relatively new book on how to work through the pain of infidelity.
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Link to Face Reality Inc
One of the leading US sites on handling the pain of infidelity hosted by author Elissa Gough
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Link to Dear
One of the most responsible US sites on infidelity and relationships hosted by leading author Peggy Vaughan.
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